If you find yourself constantly asking your child "What were you thinking?" only to be met with a blank stare, you aren't alone. At Atium Health, we see this frustration every day. It usually isn't a lack of care or intelligence on the teen's part. Often, it is a simple biological timing issue.
The adolescent brain is essentially a work in progress. While the emotional and reward-seeking centers are firing at full speed, the frontal cortex is the part of the brain that controls reasoning and helps us think before we act. According to the American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry, this area is still changing and maturing well into adulthood. Because the brain relies more on the amygdala (the emotional center) during these years, teens are naturally more likely to act on impulse or misread social cues. When a teen is in a high-pressure moment, they often act before that logical pause ever has a chance to kick in.
Because a teen’s internal decision-making system is still under construction, the NOJOS framework provides an external structure to keep them safe while they grow. We use this certified program to help youth practice the pause they are currently missing. You can learn more about the specific structure of these programs in our guide to NOJOS Therapist Specialized Level 1 & 2 Care.
In Level 1 education, we help the youth identify the physical signs of an impulse, like a racing heart or a sudden urge. We teach them concrete social skills to step back before a boundary is crossed. For youth with more established patterns, Level 2 psychotherapy digs into the underlying triggers. This is where specialized providers like Clint Okamoto help the youth understand why they reach for certain behaviors when stressed or lonely.
When a teen is in a NOJOS program, the goal is rehabilitation, not just restriction. Our clinical approach is built on the latest research in adolescent development and behavioral health. We work with the family to turn problem behaviors into learning opportunities.
Instead of just addressing the symptoms, we look at the whole child. We help parents understand how to communicate in a way that lowers the teen's defensiveness, making it easier for them to learn accountability and healthy relationship dynamics.
Navigating the complexities of behavioral health, schools, and the legal system is a heavy burden for any family to carry alone. Whether you are seeking a NOJOS Therapist due to a court mandate or because you want to intervene proactively before a situation escalates, we are here to help. You can help your child build the tools they need for a healthy, successful life.
Schedule a private consultation with the specialized team at Atium Health today.
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